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Offline Self-Esteem: How to Help Neurodivergent Teens Thrive Beyond Screens

Send us a textWhat happens when a generation raised on constant scrolling tries to develop authentic self-worth? For neurodivergent teens especially, this challenge can feel overwhelming. Today we dive deep into self-esteem in the "scroll age," exploring how social media affects our teens' perception of themselves and what we can do to help them build genuine confidence offline. Drawing from my experience coaching neurodivergent youth, I share heartbreaking insights like one client who admitted, "I pretend to be someone else online because the real me isn't good enough." When your brain already tells you you're too much or not enough, even minor online rejection can feel like total identity collapse.But there's hope! I outline five practical strategies parents can implement immediately: becoming strength spotters instead of problem fixers, helping teens build identity through skill mastery rather than follower counts, incorporating movement to boost brain chemi

When Social Media Becomes Their Teacher: What Parents of Neurodiverse Kids Must Know

Send us a textSocial media isn't just changing how our kids communicate—it's reshaping their entire social development, especially for neurodiverse teens. As algorithms increasingly dictate what content our children consume, many parents feel overwhelmed by this digital landscape they never navigated themselves.The stakes couldn't be higher. For teens with ADHD and autism, social media creates unique challenges around interpreting social cues, managing hyperfocus tendencies, and regulating emotional responses to online interactions. A single negative comment can feel devastating, while the dopamine hits from likes and shares can create unhealthy attachment patterns.Yet beyond these risks lie genuine benefits. Many neurodiverse teens find their people online—communities that share their interests and understand their experiences in ways their immediate environment may not. They discover spaces to showcase their creative talents and practice social skills in lower-pressure se

Raising Resilient Kids: The POWER Framework

Send us a textThe alarming rise in youth suicide and mental health struggles demands urgent attention to how we're equipping our children with emotional resilience. What if the key to helping kids navigate life's challenges isn't protecting them from difficulty, but teaching them how to bounce back stronger?This deeply important episode unpacks the five-part POWER framework for building resilience in children and teens, especially those with neurodivergent traits. Rather than viewing resilience as an innate quality some children possess and others don't, I share how it's actually a learnable skill that parents can systematically nurture.The framework begins with Presence—creating emotional safety through genuine connection and active listening. Then Originality, allowing children to solve problems their way instead of rushing to rescue them. Wholeness focuses on embracing unique strengths, particularly critical for neurodivergent children who often feel "too different."

The Guilt Spiral Stops Here: A Guide for Parents of Quirky Kids

Send us a textThat relentless voice questioning if you're doing enough for your neurodiverse child—we all hear it. Parent guilt might be the most universal yet least discussed challenge for those raising quirky kids.Parenting a child with ADHD, autism, or other neurodivergences often comes with an extra helping of self-doubt. We spiral through "what-ifs," replay our reactions to meltdowns, and wonder if we're somehow responsible for our child's struggles. This episode confronts that guilt head-on, offering both validation and practical strategies to transform those feelings into growth opportunities.The truth? Your guilt isn't evidence of failure—it's proof of how deeply you care. ADHD, autism, and other neurodiversities are neurological differences, not parenting failures. When we understand this fundamental truth, we can shift from self-blame to supportive action. Your child doesn't need perfection; they need you showing up consistently, making mistakes, apologi

Transforming Anger: Strategies for Parents and Kids

Send us a textAnger can often feel like an insurmountable challenge, especially in homes with neurodiverse children. Today’s episode focuses on understanding anger as a signal for deeper emotional needs, rather than a negative emotion to suppress. Listen as we explore practical strategies for both parents and children to manage anger effectively and build emotional regulation skills. Laurie Bloyer, your host and learning and life success coach for families with ADHD, guides us through key themes like identifying emotional triggers, the importance of self-regulation for parents, and the essential techniques to teach children how to process their emotions. This episode highlights the significance of repairing relationships following outbursts, emphasizing that it’s not about perfection, but continual progress in fostering understanding and connection. We invite you to uncover tools that not only reduce anger but also enhance emotional health in your family dynamics.

How to Teach Your ADHD Child to Advocate for Themselves: Tips for Every Age

Send us a textDiscover the transformative power of self-advocacy in our latest podcast episode! We dive deep into why empowering children and teens to speak up for themselves is essential, particularly for those navigating the complexities of ADHD. From the tender ages of 8 to 12, where it’s all about building confidence and awareness, to the rebellious teenage years where ownership and responsibility come into play, we break down practical steps for parents and educators alike.Join us as we unveil age-specific strategies to help your child identify their unique strengths and challenges and articulate their needs through simple, effective phrases. Learn how you can foster these vital communication skills at home with engaging role-playing exercises. We also address the unique landscape of self-advocacy for young adults. As they transition into college and the workforce, understanding their legal rights and the nuances of disclosing their ADHD becomes crucial. In this episode

Empowering Partnerships: Advocating for ADHD Children Through Collaboration and Support

Send us a textTransform your advocacy efforts and learn how to collaborate effectively for your ADHD child’s success. Discover the shift from confrontation to cooperation, as we guide you through building strong partnerships with educators and highlighting your child’s unique strengths. By embracing patience over frustration and focusing on support rather than solutions, you'll find new ways to communicate your child's needs in educational and public settings. Uncover practical tips for navigating IEP and 504 meetings with confidence, while also understanding the challenges teachers face, ensuring a thriving environment for your child.Join us on a mission to support ADHD families worldwide. Sharing this podcast can extend our reach, providing much-needed assistance to those struggling with similar challenges. Writing reviews not only boosts our visibility but also helps us connect with more families in need. Through our guidance, we aim to make a meaningful difference, empo

Nurturing Yourself: Unlocking Self-Care Strategies for Parents of Children with ADHD

Send us a textJoin me, Laurie Bloyer, as we explore the transformative journey of self-care for parents raising children with ADHD. How do you maintain your emotional resilience while supporting your child's unique needs? This episode of Neuroquirky Nexus promises to equip you with practical strategies to enhance both your well-being and your parenting journey. From setting boundaries to discovering the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique, you'll gain valuable insights into nurturing yourself. Dive into the importance of building a supportive community, prioritizing sleep, and finding those essential micro-moments to recharge throughout your day. Embrace the mindset shift that invites self-compassion and the release of guilt, empowering you to care for yourself so you can better nurture your child.As Valentine's Day approaches, remember that love and patience start with yourself. Our upcoming empowerment workshop on February 22nd is your chance to strengthen your skills in a welcoming enviro

ADHD and the Art of Building Friendships

Send us a textDiscover the keys to unlocking meaningful social connections for children with ADHD this Valentine's Day. What if the challenges these kids face were less about limitations and more about unique opportunities for growth? Join me, Laurie Bloyer, on this episode of Neuroquirky Nexus as we unravel the complexities of ADHD, focusing on how the ADHD brain uniquely processes social cues, often leading to unexpected hurdles like impulsivity and emotional intensity. Through real-life stories, we dive into the heart of Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) and its profound impact on social interactions for children with ADHD. You'll gain insights that reveal the bravery and resilience these kids exhibit in their social worlds, as well as the compassionate support they need to flourish.Let's turn the tide this holiday season by sharing resources, support, and understanding for the ADHD community. By providing children with the right tools and language, we can help them transform fe

Inside the Amazing Minds of Children with ADHD

Send us a textImagine trying to focus in a world where every sound, sight, and thought competes for your attention, like trying to catch a butterfly amidst a whirlwind. Have you ever wondered what it’s like to navigate the buzzing, vibrant chaos of a classroom with ADHD? Join Laurie Bloyer on Neuroquirky Nexus as we venture into the captivating, colorful minds of children with ADHD. This episode brings to life their daily experiences, using vivid analogies to shed light on the sensory overload and racing thoughts that shape their interactions with the world.Laurie, a Wholistic NeuroGrowth Learning and LIfe coach, guides us through the intricate dance of thoughts that children with ADHD experience—where focusing feels like walking a tightrope with a glass of water in hand. We unpack the common misconceptions about these incredible kids and explore how understanding their unique wiring can reveal hidden strengths. By embracing their kaleidoscope of sensations, we can transfor

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FB Live 1- Why learning STEAM is so vital for teens

Here is Part 1 of my interview with Kohila Sivas regarding my STEAM coaching program and shy children need to learn HOW to learn.

FB Live 2- Why learning STEAM is so vital for teens

Here is Part 2 of my interview with Kohila Sivas regarding my STEAM coaching program.

Podcast Guest on Aligned Learning Revolution

STEAM learning plays a vital role in nurturing future innovators by providing a well-rounded and dynamic educational experience. As parents and educators, we need to encourage students to find a love for learning. In this episode, Kohila Sivas interviews Laurie Bloyer, a Wholistic Learning Success Coach and the founder of Nexus Success Coaching. With a passion for helping students learn how to learn, Laurie shares to us the value of STEAM learning and how parents can support their children at home. She tackles the challenges in the current educational landscape, the need for personalized learning, and the importance of soft skills, hands-on learning, and project-based approaches in education. Laurie also touches on the impact of technology, sharing insights on finding a balance and setting boundaries, especially for children with dyslexia and anxiety. This episode serves as a guiding beacon for parents seeking to actively support their children's educational journey through wholistic and effective approaches. Tune in!

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